“If you want a quality, act as if you already had it.” William James
This is the other way to define quality - as a facet of our personality. We all have areas that we would like to improve in. Instead of wishing, start acting as if you have already conquered that goal. Then continue to act in harmony with that goal. There is no on-off switch. If you want to be that kind of person then start this second. Manage the perception of others now and not later.